Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Empty
or actually, in my HEART.
Need to go back to writing...
experience, learn, write and share...
It's good for me and readers as well insyaAllah~!
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Restudy~!
I want to improve and polish my japanese~~~
Ganbarimasu....
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Syawal of 1432H
This is also my first syawal as a wife to my beloved husband and as a new member of my new family.
It was a wonderful experience.
However, yes, time to be spent with my mom, dad, siblings and relatives has become shorter.
Many things and people need to be taken into consideration.
Even in the future, there are some other changes that my husband and I need to face.
But that does not mean these changes are bad.
These are the signs of moving forward to another phase of life.
Love, patience and tolerance are important.
Every moment is precious.Appreciate every second we have, and every person around us.
and do not forget to always say, "Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah..."
Friday, August 26, 2011
Alhamdulillah
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
'women are complicated creatures' Nouman Ali Khan
Sooo true....
I have been listening to this talk for a few times before I'm married, but with no idea that I will be laughing while agreeing on every points Sh. Nouman is saying in this clip...
may Allah bless him...
and my husband and me,
and all of us...Ameen.
Alhamdulillah...
Thursday, August 18, 2011
JANJI CINTA
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Nigetaku arimasen~!
そのせきにんで持つふびされそうになります。。。
でも、待ってる人がいる。
だから、にげたくないんです!
Sono sekinin de motsu fubisaresou ni narimasu...
Demo, matteru hito ga iru.
Dakara nigetakunain desu!
At times, I am overwhelmed by that responsibility…
But, There are people who are waiting.
Therefore, I don’t want to run away…
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Mengharap Hanya pada Allah
Bismillah…
Tika di saat-saat kita lemah
Di saat-saat kita di bawah
Di saat-saat seolah-olah mahu sahaja putus asa dengan urusan dunia
Pada ketika itu seumpama diri yang tidak bisa berbicara terkurung dalam kamar yang gelap gelita
Hati menjerit-jerit meminta tolong
Tangan menggapai-gapai menjari jalan keluar
Kaki melangkah satu persatu, perlahan…tiada arah tuju
Mata mencari-cari sinar harapan
Lazimnya diri yang sebegini, mulut tidak mahu meminta takut nampak akan kelemahan, tetapi masih mengharap kepada insan-insan untuk menghulurkan bantuan
Dan seringkali diri yang sebegini lupa….
Mengharap pada manusia sering membawa kepada kecewa
Mengharap pada Allah jua membawa bahagia
Ya Allah, aku sering lupa, aku sering lalai, kadang-kadang tertanya sudah layakkah aku untuk menunaikan AmanahMu kepadaku…
Bantulah aku, Kuatkan hatiku, Tetapkan peganganku, Yakinkan aku dengan janji-janjiMu, dan Golongkanlah aku di antara hamba-hambaMu yang berTaqwa…
Kerana sesungguhnya ya Allah, hanya Engkau sahaja tempat aku meminta dan mengharap…
Sunday, March 20, 2011
We can stand up one more time...!
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Translation:
Everyday is smeared with mud,
But it's to late to be worrying about that now
It's so surprising that it's akward,
But I have a dream my heart is sworn to.
The unreachable starts are twinkling,
Wishing to touch them, softly asked them a question,
If hope is restored to my heart,
I'll just chase after them.
"An endless sky is there" Just now a confident voice could be heard,
Shall we change that we can't fly, and go?
Let's start over by taking a step forward, however many time
Energetically (or with a strong energy/spirit/effort..)
More that the piled-up excuses, lets try believing in the truth
More that a happiness full of lies, let's smile honestly
If one more star falls,
I'll reach out my hand so that I might catch it
Because a pure white future can continue enywhere,
I just want to make sure.
"There's nothing that you can't see" that confident song can be heard
These feelings that wont disappear are right here
No matter when, Let's try to stand up one more time
Energetically.
If my tear tracks dry, then I'll call out for you again
Answer me, and we'll go to a future we haven't seen before
I've realized I'm not alone
Let's aim for that shining door together
"An endless sky is there" Just now a confident voice could be heard,
Shall we change that we can't fly, and go?
Let's start over by taking a step forward, however many time
Energetically
"There's nothing that you can't see" that confident song can be heard
These feelings that wont disappear are right here
No matter when, Let's try to stand up one more time
Energetically.
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Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Yaumul Qiyamah
In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful
Nay, I swear by the Day of Resurrection; (1)
Nay, I swear by the accusing soul (that this Scripture is true). (2)
Thinketh man that We shall not assemble his bones? (3)
Yea, verily Yea. We are Able to restore his very fingers! (4) But man would fain deny what is before him. (5)
He asketh: When will be this Day of Resurrection? (6)
But when sight is confounded (7)
And the moon is eclipsed (8)
And sun and moon are united, (9)
On that day man will cry: Whither to flee! (10)
Alas! No refuge! (11) Unto thy Lord is the recourse that day. (12)
On that day man is told the tale of that which he hath sent before and left behind. (13)
Oh, but man is a telling witness against himself, (14)
Although he tender his excuses. (15)
Monday, February 28, 2011
Being a Woman
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
I am in the middle of reading a book, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray, explaining generally how men and women are different form one other. It is a good book to learn differences in our characteristics, emotion cycle as well as the way we communicate, solve problem and dealing with stress.
Spending every single day of this life with family, life partner, friends and colleagues, can be tiring if we are not exposed with these differences. For instance, generally women need someone to listen to their problems just to release stress without necessarily finding any solution to the problems at the moment. On the other hand, men normally don’t talk about their problems unless they cannot solve the problems by themselves and need to find solution from others.
On the other hand, by reading this book, I get to realize our nature, my nature as a woman. We women are emotional and sensitive beings. One point that I agree from the book is that a woman is a creature that is naturally love to give and afraid to accept too much. We love to share…show our new clothes and shoes, telling stories, share problems, held gatherings and so on and on and on…However, we are afraid to receive. It doesn’t mean that we don’t accept anything, but we are worried if we are receiving too much without giving back, we feel uneasy to make things difficult for others, and sometimes we are afraid to ask something for ourselves. But that‘s not necessarily a bad thing. Being emotional and sensitive make us a loving and considerate wife, mother and friend.
The problem is when we don’t know how to control our emotion and we don’t recognize our needs. It is not that we don’t have any longing but we usually expect others to understand without asking directly. Then, after too much giving without receiving much, a woman may get tired or explode. I don’t say we should not give up giving and loving people around us. We just need to learn how to ask something DIRECTLY for ourselves, (MODERATELY) especially from guys because they sometimes won’t know if you don’t tell them. Men also generally don’t understand if we use flowery words to ask for something. A husband may not understand if her wife say “ This living room doesn’t seem to have anything…” and what he will reply is “Really? I think we already have everything we need”. It will be easier if the wife said “ I think we need a vase of flowers and a new curtain in our living room to make it look nicer. Why don’t we go to mall together this weekend?”, and then her husband wont be confused and will consider her suggestion.
But remember, what I wrote here is something general…each person has their own characteristic and sensitivity. For example, my dad is a architect landscape and exposed to design and architecture. So I think it is not hard for my mom to talk with my dad about house decoration, and why she want to decorate house. Having them as my parents, I inherit their interest in decoration, landscape and architecture…^_^
We, Adam and Eve, are created by Allah swt., biologically, physically, and psychologically different, not to compete each other but to complement each other. Isn’t it beautiful…?
Thus I think it is ridiculous when men and women are trying to compete each other or trying to get equal right in EVERY ASPECT although it is obvious that men and women are very different. We need to learn about our nature as a man or woman, learn our need, learn self-control, learn to be aware, patient and considerate to others, learn to understand others. During the learning journey, I believe that we will come to understand people around us better regardless their gender.
I close today’s post with a verse Allah swt. has mentioned in al-Quran al-Karim surah al-Hujraat, 49: 13 ;
يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلنَّاسُ إِنَّا خَلَقۡنَـٰكُم مِّن ذَكَرٍ۬ وَأُنثَىٰ وَجَعَلۡنَـٰكُمۡ شُعُوبً۬ا وَقَبَآٮِٕلَ لِتَعَارَفُوٓاْۚ إِنَّ أَڪۡرَمَكُمۡ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ أَتۡقَٮٰكُمۡۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ۬
O mankind! Lo! We have created you from male and female, and have made you nations and tribes that ye may know one another. Lo! the noblest of you, in the sight of Allah, is the best in conduct. Lo! Allah is Knower, Aware. (13)
WallahuA’lam.